What's arbitrary about it? Just be nice to people! Don't go around saying racist or sexist or homophobic things in public. We'd really, really like it if our

What's arbitrary about it? Just be nice to people! Don't go around saying racist or sexist or homophobic things in public. We'd really, really like it if our kids grew up not being scared to tell us they're gay, or if our black friends would be no more scared of a white cop than our white friends are, or if our trans women friends aren't at risk of being murdered for using a pointlessly gendered public facility. And while people are at it, it'd be really nice to stop electing white racists to the leadership of prominent and powerful countries. My sense of the younger generation here is that if they're tired of it it's because they don't understand what our problem is.