> as soon as you start explaining yourself, you have lost the argument (I learned this when I tried to explain myself to my partner) Yes. When it's about minor

> as soon as you start explaining yourself, you have lost the argument (I learned this when I tried to explain myself to my partner) Yes. When it's about minor things, you don't care to be right when the relationship with your partner is at stake. But the angry mobs fuelled by hypocrisy and bad journalism are not your partner. They are the problem. They need to be told loud and clear that they're not just dead wrong, they're also dangerous and bigoted.