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I meant in my personal life. I make a joke, she gets offended. I can spend the next hour explaining the joke and how it wasn't supposed to be offensive. Or I ju
by hojjat12000 6y ago
I meant in my personal life. I make a joke, she gets offended. I can spend the next hour explaining the joke and how it wasn't supposed to be offensive. Or I just apologize.
Of course, I'm a coward.
- nickff 6y agoI don't think that makes you a coward, it just means that you value other things over being 'right'. Some people are obsessed with always 'winning', and don't pay attention to how their fighting can hurt people and relationships. I obviously don't know you or the specifics of your disagreements, but I think you should be forgiving of yourself.
- autoditype 6y ago> Or I just apologize. Of course, I'm a coward. You can apologize AND simultaneously it can be true that such other person is also a jerk who purposefully gets offended by stupid things and takes everyone out of context for their own benefit who leads a march to cancel you.
- mseepgood 6y agoMaybe your jokes aren't that good.
- tjalfi 6y agoThere's nothing cowardly about apologizing when you hurt someone's feelings. If your jokes are frequently poorly received by her then I would consider telling them to other people. Some jokes can be told to anyone but many have a limited audience.
- j4yav 6y agoWow, there's something incredibly heartbreaking about summing things up that way.