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I have zero sympathy for what Facebook is doing so I believe this is a step in the right direction. A bigger step would be to just stop using anything Facebook

I have zero sympathy for what Facebook is doing so I believe this is a step in the right direction. A bigger step would be to just stop using anything Facebook. You attention is a precious resource and your time on Earth is limited.

JKCalhoun 6y ago
That's a bigger issue, but I agree. I broke the yoke of Big Cable and transcended the "vidiots" only to have become lazy and a "netiot". A friend I know appears to limit his computer (and phone) time to the morning hours. (I mean, I've never asked him but if I email or even text him, I never see a reply until the morning of the following day.) I am going to try and do that as well. Get some actual shit done during the day again.
- 2cb 6y ago
  Personally, after dumping Facebook and Twitter, I made a Mastodon instance to chill out on. While it is arguably just as much of a time waster as any other social media, it doesn't track me, throw ads in my face, show me an algorithmic feed designed to manipulate me, "suggest" people and pages to follow, and since it's my instance I can choose what other instances I do or don't want to federate with. The end result is a form of social media that's much better for my mental health. We've all seen the studies by now about the stress and other negative effects of Facebook. None of that applies to Mastodon and the fediverse in general. Or at least, much less of it. Ultimately, of course, it depends on how you choose to use it. But yeah it's still just as easy to spend all day on there instead of actually getting shit done. Mostly. One thing Mastodon doesn't do, which Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, and the rest do is bug you with notifications telling you what you're "missing out on" if you don't use it for a while. I've had Instagram go nuts sending me constant notifications telling me nothing except "this list of people posted recently, check out what you're missing!" Then, when I disabled its notifications, instead I get emails saying the same thing. I'm probably gonna delete IG soon because it's Facebook owned and I don't use it anymore, but point is, these mainstream social networks are designed to pull you back in constantly. Federated networks are not. Much easier to not use Mastodon for a few days, nothing will bug me about it.
- rantwasp 6y ago
  i used to do this before the pandemic. i would have limit my screen time and it worked wonders
CA0DA 6y ago
I have done this! I encourage others to do so as well. Block Facebook IPs at your computer DNS level with this: https://github.com/jmdugan/blocklists/blob/master/corporations/facebook/all https://github.com/jmdugan/blocklists/blob/master/corporatio...
evad3r 6y ago
The problem is Facebook isn't just... Facebook. It's Messenger. and Instagram. and WhatsApp. I could easily cut all of those things but unfortunately literally everyone I know uses Messenger for day to day messaging.
- rantwasp 6y ago
  the struggle is real. but for people that want to talk to me there is Signal. I have seen a lot of people jumping on it lately. The tide is turning

JKCalhoun 6y ago

That's a bigger issue, but I agree. I broke the yoke of Big Cable and transcended the "vidiots" only to have become lazy and a "netiot". A friend I know appears to limit his computer (and phone) time to the morning hours. (I mean, I've never asked him but if I email or even text him, I never see a reply until the morning of the following day.) I am going to try and do that as well. Get some actual shit done during the day again.

2cb 6y ago
Personally, after dumping Facebook and Twitter, I made a Mastodon instance to chill out on. While it is arguably just as much of a time waster as any other social media, it doesn't track me, throw ads in my face, show me an algorithmic feed designed to manipulate me, "suggest" people and pages to follow, and since it's my instance I can choose what other instances I do or don't want to federate with. The end result is a form of social media that's much better for my mental health. We've all seen the studies by now about the stress and other negative effects of Facebook. None of that applies to Mastodon and the fediverse in general. Or at least, much less of it. Ultimately, of course, it depends on how you choose to use it. But yeah it's still just as easy to spend all day on there instead of actually getting shit done. Mostly. One thing Mastodon doesn't do, which Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, and the rest do is bug you with notifications telling you what you're "missing out on" if you don't use it for a while. I've had Instagram go nuts sending me constant notifications telling me nothing except "this list of people posted recently, check out what you're missing!" Then, when I disabled its notifications, instead I get emails saying the same thing. I'm probably gonna delete IG soon because it's Facebook owned and I don't use it anymore, but point is, these mainstream social networks are designed to pull you back in constantly. Federated networks are not. Much easier to not use Mastodon for a few days, nothing will bug me about it.
rantwasp 6y ago
i used to do this before the pandemic. i would have limit my screen time and it worked wonders

CA0DA 6y ago

I have done this! I encourage others to do so as well. Block Facebook IPs at your computer DNS level with this: https://github.com/jmdugan/blocklists/blob/master/corporations/facebook/all https://github.com/jmdugan/blocklists/blob/master/corporatio...

evad3r 6y ago

The problem is Facebook isn't just... Facebook. It's Messenger. and Instagram. and WhatsApp. I could easily cut all of those things but unfortunately literally everyone I know uses Messenger for day to day messaging.

rantwasp 6y ago
the struggle is real. but for people that want to talk to me there is Signal. I have seen a lot of people jumping on it lately. The tide is turning