Edits I'm with you totally. It doesn't feel right or valid. why worry about a coffee? ( I don't!). But that feeling could be worth challenging... If there's 2

Edits I'm with you totally. It doesn't feel right or valid. why worry about a coffee? ( I don't!). But that feeling could be worth challenging... If there's 2 of you and you eat out 5 times a week for the length of time you would own a car... then it might be equivalent? There's that old paradoxical saying about how the rich are rich because they don't buy anything.