I don't want it to sound like an attack, but honestly, how do you actually visualize this? I try to explore the anarchist leaning ideas with an open mind since

I don't want it to sound like an attack, but honestly, how do you actually visualize this? I try to explore the anarchist leaning ideas with an open mind since I see the problems with government, but in a way, maybe I'm just a square but my reasoning always comes back to government. First I start with ok, I like my water drinkable and my food not poisoned, I do like my roads to go around, ok but smaller entities could regulate it, cool, but now we have thousands if not millions of entities regulating this in their own manner, wouldn't it be cool to have a standard? not too mention that some of this smaller entities would have a real hard time if they don't have enough resources that a central entity would distribute more fairly? It always seems to start from the basis of every actor will collaborate, what if the river I need for water is right outside the border from my smaller entity? is they only option war? Speaking of war, if we have all small entities that are peaceful amongst them but a couple of them decide they want more group and invade this smaller entities for their resources, maybe we could start an organization that unites the smaller entities together so we can defend against them, sounds familiar? looks like the history of mankind, and again it always seems to go back to government. My view is that it sounds like a nice idea to tend towards but not possible to instill unless we're on a situation where there's literally nothing to be gained by being a bad actor, and to be honest, I can't again visualize this scenario, how can there be nothing to be gained? It sounds to start terrible, nothing to aspire to? Again, I'd like to point out that you shouldn't get me started on the abuses of government and the injustices that it brings, but I just can't get my head out of what seem to be a necessary evil unless you are starting from basis that seem just counter to what human nature is. I'm more than open to being convinced otherwise since the idea sounds so good in so many regards.