I agree that confidence is important. The other stuff does matter too though. It’s better to recognize that rather than pretend it’s all confidence. The girl

I agree that confidence is important. The other stuff does matter too though. It’s better to recognize that rather than pretend it’s all confidence. The girl that canceled the date didn’t do so because I wasn’t confident, she did so because she saw a picture of me with thinning hair on FB. Another canceled when she found out I was 3 months younger than her. People are picky. Thankfully I've since met someone really great and I'm now engaged/out of the game. I'm glad.