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It's always a sad to read the comment section when discussing male attractiveness; so many people with learned helplessness. Being attractive is 3 traits: phys
by jlos 6y ago
It's always a sad to read the comment section when discussing male attractiveness; so many people with learned helplessness.
Being attractive is 3 traits: physical fitness, grooming, and sociability. The first two are easy
1. Find a sport and hit the gym. There is a sport out there you will enjoy (racket sports, team sports, martial arts, running, rock climbing). As a creature, you are meant to be active and without a sport you are living sub-optimally.
2. Find a healthy diet. Not keto or some temporary quick fix, but a habit of eating that is enjoyable and good for you.
3. Get a properly fitting wardrobe and a good barber. You don't have to break the bank or be a fashion model to look well-groomed on a regular basis. You will feel good about yourself too.
4. Sociability and confidence are the most work but still a mix of skill and attitude. I can't stress this enough, but if you feel that you can't be attractive thats the result of your environment not some inherent limitation in you as a person.
Everything else on top of these points are just extras. Nice hair, big eyes, high cheekbones, whatever else just improve on a base level of attractiveness. Go find guys who are fit, well groomed, confident and bald, then ask if they seem attractive.
- DC1350 6y agoIt’s really cruel to talk about how important barbers and haircuts in a thread full of guys who are insecure about their hair.
- pretendscholar 6y agoMost bald guys have hair just not that much on the top. Shaping the remaining hair in a fashionable way is imperative. Looking like George Carlin in his later years with long unkempt hair on the sides and a bald spot on the top is not sexy.
- jlos 6y agoBarbers also trim beards. They will also help you decide a good look for what hair you have, even if it's shave, buzz with a fade, etc. Again, well groomed is more important than the actual cut. For the record I shave my head. But I also regularly get compliments on my beard which is due entirely to having it trimmed by a barber every 2-3 weeks.
- trefoiled 6y agoI'm pretty sure most people would agree the structure of your face is much more than an "extra," and belongs in the same category as physical fitness, grooming, etc.
- badfaceshape 6y agoYes it is definitely. I am in 30s and have never once had a woman hit on me though I am fit, sociable, and groomed well. Though my face is perhaps worse than the average person who may be non-handsome.
- ghego1 6y agoMmm no. A friend of mine is a male model and the fact that he is very good looking makes all the difference in the world. Where I can agree is that a man can make up for a lack of attractiveness with other things. But being super attractive is simply a huge advantage, that cannot always be compensated with other qualities.