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> You have an obligation to do the best that you can This reads like an expectation mindset that with high probability will end up hurting you, your kid and yo

> You have an obligation to do the best that you can This reads like an expectation mindset that with high probability will end up hurting you, your kid and your relationship. Somewhere here belongs the put-oxygen-mask-on-yourself-first metaphor

twiddling 6y ago
As someone with older children, I can attest. Also the attitude can lead to a lot of tension with your co-parent.