Cool - sounds like you have the context. I just remember adults yelling at me as a kid for things like this. “You should take responsibility.” Etc. At the tim

Cool - sounds like you have the context. I just remember adults yelling at me as a kid for things like this. “You should take responsibility.” Etc. At the time I didn’t know what to do. I wish I had just said, “I have no control over my life”. I think other adults can sometimes be clueless about what a kid’s family life is like.