In our case the benefits of better sleep for both of us at night made it worth the loss of flexibility/spontaneity with sex. We got to skip the sleep-deprived p

In our case the benefits of better sleep for both of us at night made it worth the loss of flexibility/spontaneity with sex. We got to skip the sleep-deprived phase of caring for a newborn thanks to bedsharing. Better sleep makes it easier to feel up for sex as well! I would advise new parents to consider their values and weigh the costs of a variety of approaches.