What I think grandparent comment should think is: is it more important to convey my idea or to show that I'm part of a group? Both do well for different contex

What I think grandparent comment should think is: is it more important to convey my idea or to show that I'm part of a group? Both do well for different contexts. Probably choosing one for every context is a terrible idea. As that saying goes: "if wearing a tie or not is more important than to pitch your idea, then your idea wasn't that important to begin with" edit: parent -> grandparent