I was exaggerating for effect, but this is actually the kind of 'advice' you get from people when having trouble conceiving. "We just got really drunk and stop

I was exaggerating for effect, but this is actually the kind of 'advice' you get from people when having trouble conceiving. "We just got really drunk and stopped worrying an HEY, we made a baby! You Should try that!" OR "My best mate smokes a spliff every morning and they had a baby no problem, you shouldn't bother giving up caffeine" The 'advice' is almost as painful as the not conceiving.