One note: For me it is much harder if I had control of the root cause because then it is my fault and I am crushing myself about how I was wrong etc. If it’s s

One note: For me it is much harder if I had control of the root cause because then it is my fault and I am crushing myself about how I was wrong etc. If it’s some others fault, you can be sad but shrug it off more easily. Also, the others wont be as mad towards you.