You said "they have for all of us at some point" and "The dots connect for everyone, some folks just get more of them", in response to someone saying we only re

You said "they have for all of us at some point" and "The dots connect for everyone, some folks just get more of them", in response to someone saying we only really hear about success stories, which is very different to the point you now say you were making. For a lot of people, the dots just don't connect.