> Instead they spend all their time with other kids who are have they exact same emotionally immaturity as they do. I don't think that's true but I agree with

> Instead they spend all their time with other kids who are have they exact same emotionally immaturity as they do. I don't think that's true but I agree with your other points if we agree that emotional maturity isn't a true false stage and that there are domains for which one isn't as mature as in another domain. For instance, I learned at a very young age (3 or 4) that hurting others was actually painful for the other part. Not from receiving it myself but from giving it. From then I could never engage in confrontation/retaliation dynamics which put me at odds with others.