Well... I think the common consensus is that servers and automatic updates don't go together. For the most part you don't want your server deciding to upgrade i

Well... I think the common consensus is that servers and automatic updates don't go together. For the most part you don't want your server deciding to upgrade its database/etc at random times. Similarly for the "accessible UI" bits, particularly if your managing more than a single server and you want to say upgrade a few thousand of them at the same time. In both cases its pretty "easy" to configure a more server mgmt related tool to do those operations (hence cockpit! or anisible GUIs/etc). If you looking for a more android level of software mgmt then its pretty easy to install the desktop tooling on something like fedora server that comes with fedora workstation. With that you get nice app stores layered on top of both the traditional dnf/rpm package mgmt as well as flatpak and various other container technologies. For a single home/etc server, just install something like fedora server, and group install one of the desktop/etc profiles during setup (or later if it suits you).