I'm more inclined to trust the anecdotes of a palliative care nurse with years and years of intimate experience with the dying than your single anecdote from a

I'm more inclined to trust the anecdotes of a palliative care nurse with years and years of intimate experience with the dying than your single anecdote from a single perimortem friend. The post made plain it was based on anecdata, not research. Did you read the preamble or just skip right to the numbered list?