Nobody wants to end up in his position, so we analyse it to try to see where he went wrong. In his case the issue is pretty obvious, I don't think it is wrong t

Nobody wants to end up in his position, so we analyse it to try to see where he went wrong. In his case the issue is pretty obvious, I don't think it is wrong to bring that up. If you write a sob story then don't paint a huge target around yourself as the main problem and antagonist in your story.