This is a perpetual problem for which there is no good solution because historically women typically were known primarily as someone's wife. So we don't really

This is a perpetual problem for which there is no good solution because historically women typically were known primarily as someone's wife. So we don't really have a well-developed set of words and rubrics for how to show our respects for women in a way that is both clearly feminine in character and also clearly indicates they made it on their own merits and not as someone's wife/mom/daughter/whatever. I don't know how this will be solved. Some people don't even like the idea of needing it to be clearly feminine or female nomenclature.