The downvotes on this are heartless. My man, do what you can to improve your situation and if/when you can help out, do so. You will help the less fortunate by

The downvotes on this are heartless. My man, do what you can to improve your situation and if/when you can help out, do so. You will help the less fortunate by relentlessly improving your life. When you catch a breathe and life becomes fun, then spread some joy to others, but until then you are not in a position to feel guilty about it.