It doesn't work that way for sexuality. Sure, you can grow attached to people close to you, even in arranged marriages. But your core circuit of which gender yo

It doesn't work that way for sexuality. Sure, you can grow attached to people close to you, even in arranged marriages. But your core circuit of which gender you like remains unaltered by it. As for having no choice over, idk, beer vs wine, you can certainly live on beer your entire life even if you (continue to) prefer wine. But will it make you happy? Should a society of beer drinkers force it upon wine drinkers? Note that a partner is a core part of our lives, far more than which liquid you drink.