I think most likely some men are 'born gay' (whether through genetics or developmental changes in the womb etc.) while there are also men out there who are soci

I think most likely some men are 'born gay' (whether through genetics or developmental changes in the womb etc.) while there are also men out there who are socialized to be gay - and that is ok too. But certain parts of society finds the later a lot more scary (when really its not a big deal). On an aside, I have heard 'straight' men in prisons can have intimate relationships with other men (its not just brutal gang rapes). I can't cite a reference here though. Sexuality is messy...