> It's financially impossible to start a family in a major metro here This is a pernicious lie. What is impossible is maintaining a full hedonistic lifestyle w

> It's financially impossible to start a family in a major metro here This is a pernicious lie. What is impossible is maintaining a full hedonistic lifestyle with zero compromise while trying to have a family. You will have to sacrifice for them - but any good parent does anyway. > Here I have witnessed the worst forms of racial nepotism I've ever seen. Entire teams of the same ethnicities all speaking the same language. This is indeed a problem, but it is a problem you may not point at. QA teams seem to be particularly laden with this issue. Is this really not a thing in the states?