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Maybe it's a bit of a generational thing? I'm not a fan. Shit loud music, £5+ to get in, the drinks are expensive and bouncers are arbitrary so you have to deal

• laurent92 6y ago
  Bouncers were my regular insult to my developing identity in my latter teenage years. We were engineers, we didn’t understand what those bouncers wanted... We couldn’t bring girls, we didn’t know many. A weekly frustration. I believe that is why I really enjoyed becoming gay. I was cute, muscular and decently dressed, lord knows why I wasn’t welcome in straight clubs (and I wasn’t effeminate), but at least in gay clubs there was no ratio or requirement to bring women on board. The same when dealing with a gay relationship: No assigned gender role, no problem if the other is doing the washing up. I literally became gay because it was easier, I was desired by many, accepted in clubs, found equality in the relationship, where I was refused by women. I never pierced the secret. But I’m still regretting.
  • anchpop 6y ago
    What are you regretting? Never figuring out how to have relationships with women?
  • The_rationalist 6y ago
    Well it's much easier for women to be attractive because of makeup. Being muscular for men is only half of the equation, you need to buy fit clothes to show them. Also taking care of your beard do make a difference.