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I misunderstood that you were were talking about interactions here. You could probably tell that based on my response. I'm not 'being ugly to you' - and I know

I misunderstood that you were were talking about interactions here. You could probably tell that based on my response. I'm not 'being ugly to you' - and I know you might not be referring specifically to me. But misunderstandings like this happens, and it's nothing personal and you also shouldn't stress that much over. Seeing how (to me) you overreacted to both my and ' zadokshi' comment with a long reply about your stress and how much you suffer from these interactions, I guess I would suggest you either stop posting here - at least for a while - to relax, or create a username that doesn't indicate your gender or real identity in any way. In a side note, if I was on this level of stress and disappointment (sorry, english as second language and the best word here escaped my mind) in other people and and interaction with them, I would try to see someone to talk too. Edit: BTW, you literally said 'if a guy here is being friendly...'

DoreenMichele 6y ago
Edit: BTW, you literally said 'if a guy here is being friendly...' Yes, I did and the very next set of words is the following qualifier: you can pretty much bet dollars to donuts It's not some kind of "all men" statement, but that's likely how a lot of people are interpreting it. It's a "I have to invest so much ridiculous energy in trying to not accidentally signal that I'm here hoping some random internet stranger will pick me up that it makes it hard as all hell to try to behave normally and talk normally and interpret things normally." Anyway, I said I was leaving. This is my last clarification. All other "Wow, I can't believe people are so wildly misinterpreting my words" reactions will be kept to myself. Have a nice Saturday. (Or whatever day of the week it is where you live.)
- FalconSensei 6y ago
  Canada. Thank you, and have a great weekend!

DoreenMichele 6y ago

Edit: BTW, you literally said 'if a guy here is being friendly...' Yes, I did and the very next set of words is the following qualifier: you can pretty much bet dollars to donuts It's not some kind of "all men" statement, but that's likely how a lot of people are interpreting it. It's a "I have to invest so much ridiculous energy in trying to not accidentally signal that I'm here hoping some random internet stranger will pick me up that it makes it hard as all hell to try to behave normally and talk normally and interpret things normally." Anyway, I said I was leaving. This is my last clarification. All other "Wow, I can't believe people are so wildly misinterpreting my words" reactions will be kept to myself. Have a nice Saturday. (Or whatever day of the week it is where you live.)

FalconSensei 6y ago
Canada. Thank you, and have a great weekend!