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A number of people at my small company refer to their church or make other casual statements that affirm their participation of religion. I have no real problem
by alsetmusic 6y ago
A number of people at my small company refer to their church or make other casual statements that affirm their participation of religion. I have no real problem with this (I'm atheist). However, a guy who does some work for the owner and is remote from somewhere in the center of the country recently posted some very hardcore and, in my opinion, inappropriate statements in our company Slack.
He was responding to someone announcing that their family member tested positive for C19. He came with this, "The Lord blah blah and He will save with His grace yadda yadda." I consider that pretty far over the line of good taste at the workplace, even if well intentioned. Especially given that there are people on staff whose religious beliefs are unknown to me, but who come from parts of the world where Christianity is not dominant.
It doesn't bother me if a person says they'll pray for someone's recovery, for example. But the way he displayed an assumption of the superiority of his religion to others really rubbed me the wrong way. Luckily, there's no overlap in our roles and therefore no need to interact. I can just ignore him and pretend that didn't just happen.
- TheAdamAndChe 6y agoI don't know where you're from, but referencing a prayer in response to hearing that someone was infected with a dangerous disease isn't "far over the line of good taste." To those who are religious, it's core to their identity, and their prayer doesn't affect you at all unless you're religious, then it would be seen as very supportive.
- alsetmusic 6y ago> referencing a prayer in response to hearing that someone was infected with a dangerous disease isn't "far over the line of good taste." I don't know if you deliberately misconstrued my words or not. I specifically said this: > It doesn't bother me if a person says they'll pray for someone's recovery, for example. What I found "over the line of good taste at the workplace" was this sort of statement: > "The Lord blah blah and He will save with His grace yadda yadda." "I'll pray," is non-specific. Getting into the details of one's religion ("God is male, in fact He's Jesus") bothers me. Maybe God is female. Maybe God has another name. Getting specific invalidates the beliefs of others. And, once again, I am atheist. I don't believe in a supernatural creator. I just don't appreciate the assumption that one's superstitions are more correct than others.
- TheAdamAndChe 6y agoI'm sorry, I guess I don't understand. Why does it bother you when people express beliefs different from yours, and how do their beliefs affect you?
- Retric 6y agoIt’s not a religious belief being expressed that’s at issue. People don’t want to hear specifics about your beliefs any more than they want to hear about your sex life, personal fetishes, or bowl movements.
- TheAdamAndChe 6y agoI'm truly sorry that hearing a prayer is equal to hearing of someone's shit to you. When you hear it, please understand that it's merely a show of support by them. Their culture probably doesn't think it's unkempt for such a personal display to be made to another person.