I think a big part of it comes from the inclusion of the J word. If you just remove it from the question, it comes off as significantly less arrogant and will t

I think a big part of it comes from the inclusion of the J word. If you just remove it from the question, it comes off as significantly less arrogant and will tend to ruffle fewer feathers. Unfortunately, it is deeply embedded in many of our vocabularies. I'm actively trying to scrub it from mine (except when something really is that simple, or to demonstrate the effect, like in this post).