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Hard disagree on the statement "High-quality men have no desire to raise someone else's kids" based on my experience with an amazing step father and a father wh
by dhbradshaw 6y ago
Hard disagree on the statement "High-quality men have no desire to raise someone else's kids" based on my experience with an amazing step father and a father who himself has been an excellent step father.
I might even venture to say that having the heart to care well for children who are not genetically your own is part of being a high quality man.
- lotsofpulp 6y agoI assume it was meant to be a probabilistic statement, where the probability of finding a man who is economically resourceful and has the desired capacity and abilities to raise children, and is also willing to raise step children is so low as to be a material risk for women looking for said man. Based on the actions of my male friends and accounts I’ve read about dating as a single mom in their 30s, I assume the above is true.