The latter is mostly true. I can look back at events that revealed just how toxic things were, but there always seemed to be something (maybe the interesting pa

The latter is mostly true. I can look back at events that revealed just how toxic things were, but there always seemed to be something (maybe the interesting part of the job, maybe somebody in worse shape) that kept me from processing them. But once away... As one former colleague said, "Nobody who left X ever wanted to go back."