If not fighting counts as being a warrior then the whole idea collapses as that’s what the vast majority of people spend their time not doing. See below for exa

If not fighting counts as being a warrior then the whole idea collapses as that’s what the vast majority of people spend their time not doing. See below for example where information warfare gets derided as an unwarriorly pursuit despite being part of the military. It's the fighting bit that matters and why it's romanticized into self-help.