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Wow, these women are the height of irresponsibility. Here's my theory about why people think that women are more responsible for birth control. 1. They are mo
by esoteriq 15y ago
Wow, these women are the height of irresponsibility.
Here's my theory about why people think that women are more responsible for birth control.
1. They are more directly affected by pregnancy. They are the ones who would have to bear the child or to have an abortion. Abortions are not fun. Vacuuming your uterus is probably not a pleasant experience. Of course, I'm being somewhat flippant. I do think that women who have foresight and intelligence are responsible human beings who try to have children only when they want to. Of course, there are cultural and socioeconomic issues at play here. I"m not trying to suggest that men are not affected by children, but they don't need to bear the physical consequences. So birth control is more of an abstract conception for men. Although they bear the financial consequences...sometimes.
2. The idea that women are more responsible in general. Of course, this is a terrible and misguided stereotype. I know many irresponsible women (One similar to your story - she has two kids now.)If women seem more responsible, it's probably because society teaches women to be responsible and risk-averse from birth.
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- prodigal_erik 15y agoThe height of irresponsibility here is women who claim to be on the pill because they actually want kids, but to afford that they have to "oops" some guy who doesn't. This, and paternity fraud, are what make male birth control important.
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- esoteriq 15y agoYes, but I wonder how often that really happens. Maybe I'm naive, but these women sound like terrible people. These women seem to be the exception, not the rule. That being said, a man should never EVER have sex with a woman who refuses to allow the man to wear a condom. It's just as bad as a woman who gives in when the guy says "oh no, condoms feel crappy, let's go bareback." So, the man also shares the blame in that respect. I'm not even mentioning the risk of STDs. The exception is, of course, a committed monogamous relationship where the two partners trust each other. I'm not saying that male birth control isn't important. It is, but it takes two to tango (or more precisely - have sex).