So... federate but not really? I'd heavily advise instead to run as many xmpp servers* as possible, and let people/friends use them. *not matrix, unless one c

So... federate but not really? I'd heavily advise instead to run as many xmpp servers* as possible, and let people/friends use them. *not matrix, unless one configures it to forget the data and only act as a message broker, like XMPP. For this specific use, it's better.