About #4, a lot of dystopian stories have an "outsider" with mostly our current culture point of view to show why it is a dystopia (sometimes is the reader itse

About #4, a lot of dystopian stories have an "outsider" with mostly our current culture point of view to show why it is a dystopia (sometimes is the reader itself, sometimes is someone that comes from a different planet, or an isolated community or slept in some way till that moment). But for the people living on it (and all the process till reaching that point) it is just business as usual, life as it should be or like there is no better/realistic alternative. And leaving that dystopia means giving up on something they are not willing to leave. You can't cure the symptoms without dealing with the disease, and we don't want to lose some of its core elements.