I'm in an older group. It feels like much of the same. In my grade school all of the girls had a crush on one or two guys even the less pretty ones. No one h

I'm in an older group. It feels like much of the same. In my grade school all of the girls had a crush on one or two guys even the less pretty ones. No one had a chance. High school was similiar. Going to rock concerts changed that as I started to meet girls with similiar interests. Going to a concert would automatically give me a leg up because we were now part of a social circle. Later on in life I would go to a karoke bar and just the act of showing up a few times on the same day for a few weeks puts you in a social circle with others who do the same. I don't know if things have changed all that much aside from the amount of people online. I use to meet girls from bbses / the early social media sites. The differences is they were smaller and you felt like part of a social circle. Today I would advise to try to go to social meetups like photography in the park groups.. try to join a smaller group. In the end the girls from my elementary school grew up and married. Everyone married similiar to them. If they are overweight so are there husbands. If they were an 8 their husbands would be an 8. If they are a 4 their husbands are a 4. They general look like each other. My guess is the girls from your primary school will end up with someone similiar to them and so will you.