I think not being in a relationship at 35 is like BMI: it’s probably a good enough measure for most people, and the outliers can just excuse themselves. Single

I think not being in a relationship at 35 is like BMI: it’s probably a good enough measure for most people, and the outliers can just excuse themselves. Single high value people at age 35 describes most long term expats I meet at the beach who have very little in common with most of the population. Btw look around, this isn’t just a tech forum that wants to debate JS and OO all day (just half of every day). It’s on the front page because we like talking about drugs. Though let me be the first to point out to you that drugs are a permanent passenger in the larger culture of tech.