>She independently took my wife aside to ask questions, and my wife later told me that she did not ask about her income, but did ask to make sure she was not be

>She independently took my wife aside to ask questions, and my wife later told me that she did not ask about her income, but did ask to make sure she was not being abused, a question I was never asked. Why would they ask you that for a transparent answer given where they're coming from? Or is this, "how dare they do routine questions that implicate my status"?