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so, i'm gay married with another woman. it's not as simple as it seems. depending on the institution we're interfacing with, one of us will tend to get all the

so, i'm gay married with another woman. it's not as simple as it seems. depending on the institution we're interfacing with, one of us will tend to get all the calls from that institution. for our child's school, it's my wife. for the pharmacy, it's me. etc. i think quite literally the most frequent reason this happens is because the person calling you will pick the first person on their contact list. for a school, that's usually the wife/mother. she took the kid to school once, and put info on the contact list. she's first. nothing nefarious there.

t0mas88 6y ago
In my experience this is not the case at daycare. The form is very gender neutral, has a primary contact and a "partner". I did the signup and I'm usually the one dropping our daughter off and picking her up, since I work closer to daycare so ended up being the primary contact. Yet still they 9 out of 10 times call my girlfriend. Very impractical, since most cases they want you to come and pick up your kid because she is sick and I work close by while my girlfriend is 2+ hours away.