My anxiety about asking questions diminished considerably when I started taking more time to formulate them more carefully. So I guess I don't think the differ

My anxiety about asking questions diminished considerably when I started taking more time to formulate them more carefully. So I guess I don't think the difference is "too many/too few". It's "did you take the time to ask a good question?" followed by "did you take the time to make the answer available to others / future-you".