I don't know why it looks like you're being downvoted. Your comment adds to the conversation, and is correct. The students who have the hardest time with this

I don't know why it looks like you're being downvoted. Your comment adds to the conversation, and is correct. The students who have the hardest time with this sort of controlling family are the ones who have family that are wealthy and well-connected. That's not saying there aren't low-income folks with these problems; they just don't know how to navigate the systems.