> Hey, you took my advice! You specified that the matter had urgency! Good job! No, not at all. You requested a description of the topic. Urgency, whether exp

> Hey, you took my advice! You specified that the matter had urgency! Good job! No, not at all. You requested a description of the topic. Urgency, whether explicit or implicit, is always there when someone requests a synchronous conversation. Edit: as a reminder, > If it's urgent then you should probably take a few seconds to explain why. Sorry you misinterpreted. Urgency is not "Why," and my example mentioned urgency explicitly without "taking the time to explain why." Gaslighting someone in a discussion makes me less inclined to communicate. Wish you the best.