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I totally get what you're saying with your anecdote and agree that taking action can often be helpful at reducing anxiety/stress/depression. Another anecdote i
by intrepidhero 6y ago
I totally get what you're saying with your anecdote and agree that taking action can often be helpful at reducing anxiety/stress/depression.
Another anecdote is that sometimes "just power through" is a trigger phrase that leads down a path of shame and self-criticism which only serve to fuel deeper depression/anxiety/stress and so forth. There's a cultural myth that people who struggle are weak and less than people who are successful. Depression can really amplify that story. When I'm in that place I need to scale back expectations, find something (anything) I can do that's healthy, and cut myself some slack. The truth is we all struggle and success has many dimensions.
The "just power through" line isn't wrong, in fact, it's exactly what I need to hear sometimes. But it can also be exactly the wrong thing. I think it needs a heavy dose of empathy and compassion along with it.