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a couple random responses. I don't think I hear "not a good look" the same way you do. in particular, I don't hear it as a putdown, more of a cynical comment t
by leetcrew 6y ago
a couple random responses.
I don't think I hear "not a good look" the same way you do. in particular, I don't hear it as a putdown, more of a cynical comment that expresses something like "I don't necessarily oppose what you are saying/doing, but I hope for your sake that other people don't notice".
> This "weak man," tactic is taught in undergrad, the idea is to destabilize an opposing view to neutralize the person holding it. The emphasis is on "neutralize," because the underlying strategy is based on the premise that there is no truth, only power, and for an opponent to be neutral, or do nothing, means there is no resistance to your agenda.
I'm having trouble fitting this in with what I currently see in the world. it doesn't seem like either "side" would be content with my neutrality/silence. they seem to want nothing less than full and vocal alignment on every issue.
- DangitBobby 6y agoIn my experience, "not a good look" is definitely supposed to be a bitter indictment if whatever it is you are apparently doing.