At some point, looking good and doing good tend to part ways. You know someone's real values by which one they choose at that juncture. Far too many people dou

At some point, looking good and doing good tend to part ways. You know someone's real values by which one they choose at that juncture. Far too many people double down on the looking good option wile being actively horrible. The degree to which I get downvotes instead of assistance for trying to make my life work when I talk about my firsthand experience is evidence of how common this is and it's gone on a lot of years. It's gone on long enough that I'm all out of patience for sympathetic explanations about how people mean well. When push comes to shove, far too many of them only want to be seen as good people and don't actually give a damn about anyone but themselves. That's the entire point of spouting nonsense they don't personally back up and walk the walk on.