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> What ended up happening was that I spoke for about 15 minutes and then asked for questions and discussion topics. Nobody had anything to say, so that was that
by wombatmobile 6y ago
> What ended up happening was that I spoke for about 15 minutes and then asked for questions and discussion topics. Nobody had anything to say, so that was that!
I noticed that happening with me in England when I first went there. It's not something I was familiar with in America, where it is normal for people to ask questions no matter what.
Why are English audiences so reserved, I wondered for a long time, without understanding what was going on. Actually, I was wondering what was wrong with me. Was I pissing them off? How? Did I appear clueless? Smug? Wrong? Was I talking over their heads? What was it?
Eventually an English colleague told me that English (technical) people default to not asking questions until they are absolutely sure they understand what the speaker is saying. They do that to avoid the possibility of sounding like they are going off half cocked.
- Hitton 6y agoI don't think it's just English audiences. I thought this was normal overall. Where does it not work like that?
- ta988 6y agoIn US many people will have no shame asking unrelated or uneducated questions. What I realized presenting in different communities sharing participants is that it is often the same persons that will do that. The worst in my opinion are the ones that use the questions to try to say that their way of doing is better, and the ones that ask many questions and repeatidly not letting space for others.
- mhh__ 6y agoThe character Mark Corrigan from peep show's psyche explains a lot about British behaviour.