> Do you feel like there's a good way of measuring whether a relationship is worth saving or not? kinda depends on what you're looking for in a relationship. a

> Do you feel like there's a good way of measuring whether a relationship is worth saving or not? kinda depends on what you're looking for in a relationship. all relationships take some level of effort and compromise to maintain. however you measure the "value" of a relationship, it has to at least be better than being single to be worth the trouble. I'd say a relationship is worth saving if a) both partners agree it is better than being single and b) both are willing to take on a roughly symmetrical share of the effort and compromise.