My SO works with foster kids. Her job is to find foster families, work with the kids, and try (if possible) to heal the family and put them back together. She l

My SO works with foster kids. Her job is to find foster families, work with the kids, and try (if possible) to heal the family and put them back together. She loves and is good at her job. Most folks have no concept of the types of trauma many of these children go through. Sadly, by the time the state has to step in, it's no easy journey forward. People watch movies and TV dramas about these kinds of things. It does not prepare anybody involved for the reality of the problems. I've heard second-hand stories I wish I could forget.