> I don't generally do things that my friend would consider offensive, if they are actually my friend. > I don't do things that I know would hurt my friends.

> I don't generally do things that my friend would consider offensive, if they are actually my friend. > I don't do things that I know would hurt my friends. These two statements seem like they could be in conflict with each other. Suppose your friend has a methamphetamine addiction, but they consider it offensive for you to bring it up. Do you not bring it up ever because it's offensive to them?