$120K/year is damn good money for one person to be making, and in most of the US, a family pulling in that kind of money is still doing very well. If your wife

$120K/year is damn good money for one person to be making, and in most of the US, a family pulling in that kind of money is still doing very well. If your wife thinks that isn't enough to be considered middle class, she's been living in a bubble.