Do not value yourself based on that. This is a race you cannot win. If you win the race against the Jones, are you going to start competing against the Jobs or

Do not value yourself based on that. This is a race you cannot win. If you win the race against the Jones, are you going to start competing against the Jobs or Gates? It is very easy to criticize, if she is still believes you are an underachiever(you are not) Do what Fraajad says, let her find out how easy(or difficult) it is to succeed.